BEFORE YOU SAY YES

BEFORE YOU SAY YES

12 questions to ask before you hand your child's career to someone else + exactly what to listen for in the answers.

No spam. Just the Kit and the occasional outreach from Mal when there's something worth saying.

I was eight years old when I learned what this industry expected of me. I spent years performing inside a belief that was handed to me by someone who loved me — and I watched it quietly reshape kids around me whose parents were paying attention, doing everything they knew to do.

They just didn't know what to listen for.

This guide exists because I didn't have it.

“We'll figure it out as we go” is not a plan. It's a gamble, and

your kid is the one at the table.

your kid

is the one at the table.

The Before You Say Yes Conversation Kit gives you 12 specific questions to ask any rep, coach, or production before you commit — organized across three categories:

Trust & Fit

How to tell if the person across from you has your child's back before you've signed anything.

Boundaries & Consent

What real consent protocols look like on set, in rehearsal, and in training — and what to do when the answer is vague.

Sustainability & Protection

How to know if this path is still serving the human underneath the performer.

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No spam. Just the Kit and the occasional outreach from Mal when there's something worth saying.